Thursday, January 30, 2014

T.G.F.M.K Day


This week we are celebrating Catholic Schools Week. While it is the 40th year we have celebrated Catholic schools, they have been around much longer than that. The picture below is of St Joseph School in Edina, MO. I didn’t attend St. Joseph however; my dad and his siblings tested the nerves and patience of many of the Sisters that ran the school. The school sat empty for several years and time and neglect took its toll on the building. Eventually, the parish had it torn down. It was a sad day to return to Edina and see an empty lot, but with everything that happens in life, there is a lesson to learned …it takes true dedication to support a Catholic education for our children. That dedication comes from parents, grandparents, loved ones and the members of our parish as well.
My grandparents were truly dedicated to St Joseph Church and supported the school in many ways. T.G.F.M.K is an acronym for Thank God for Mrs. Killday. Mrs. Killday (AKA my Grandma) stayed home raising seven children. Their house was less than a block from the school and when a student at school got sick, or was injured they were sent to grandma’s house for the necessary TLC. One of my dad’s classmates went on to become an educator for the Blue Springs school district and part of her job was to conduct seminars for area educators and support staff. In one of her seminars she created this acronym T.G.F.M.K and talked of my Grandma's care for her when she was not feeling well, along with the support and dedication to the children of St. Joseph School, encouraging the participants to be like Mrs. Killday.
I didn’t get near enough time with my Grandma before Alzheimer's but she did teach me a valuable lesson…pray all day, eventually you’ll find what you are looking for and tomorrow is always new day!
I do believe that T.G.F.M.K can have more than one meaning. It also can also mean Thank God for Mr. Killday (AKA dad). While I didn’t have an opportunity to have a Catholic education until I moved to Jefferson City and was able to attend Helias. He has been extremely supportive of my choice to teach in the Catholic school setting. Friday we will celebrate T.G.F.M.K Day with PIZZA for lunch thanks to Mr. Killday.

 Happy Catholic Schools Week!!